a rude bastard

Matt finds me on a dating site and sends me a message: “Hi! You look beautiful and I really fancy you. I would love to get to know you better – if that's possible. Regards. Matt” He also sends me a dozen virtual kisses. I think it's a bit cheap, but at least he sounds genuine, so it doesn't matter. I check Matt's profile. He's tall, 40 years old, divorced, owns a company (so far – not bad). Then I look at his photos, there are a lot of them. Matt likes travelling, so there are photos from different European cities. But in none of them does Matt look smart – in most of them he's wearing a tracksuit (even when sightseeing), in one or two – a pair of jeans. But that's not what puts me off. I cannot see his smile – in all of the photos he looks grumpy, almost pissed off! That's what I don't like. A guy doesn't have to grin in all the pictures (then he would look like an idiot), but he does have to look friendly. Unfortunately, Matt doesn't. So I write back: “Thank you very much for the compliment. However, I wouldn't like to waste your time and give you false hope because you are not my type. Regards. Jenny”

Now – prepare for his answer: “A fucking beauty!!!!!!! You're only good for a blow job! Go and fuck yourself!”

What a rude bastard!!! Well, my intuition was right - Matt is not only unfriendly, he's also extremely rude. I write back: “I would like to inform you that I have forwarded your e-mail to the administrator of the site. You have no reason and no right to be rude to anyone. I think everyone using this site should have a bit of good manners. PS. Good luck with finding a partner here – with your attitude you will definitely need it.” I want to send it, but I cannot, it turns out Matt has blocked me. I guess he is rejected by women quite often (I wonder why) and he must be getting a lot of appropriate responses to his rude e-mails, so now the only way he knows how to deal with rejection is to write a rude message, block the girl and move on.

PS. I do forward his e-mail to the administrator, a day later I get a reply he has been sent a warning. I'm glad.