According to American sociologists, when women look for a partner, they usually make four major mistakes:
1.They are waiting for Prince Charming
2.They hide in a high tower
3.They assume their personality is the most important (so they don't pay attention to their looks)
4.They try to imitate their partner's mother
Well, I don't make theses mistakes:
I am not waiting for Prince Charming (by 'Prince Charming' I mean the guy who is suitable for me – who completes me), I am well aware of the fact that nobody's perfect and each relationship requires some give and take.
I don't hide – I am not too proud or arrogant so there is no reason men should be afraid of me.
I know my personality is as important as my looks – as far as men are concerned; at the same time I don't want them to see in photos someone artificial so I don't put photos taken by a professional photographer (like in a model's portfolio). What's the point? Do you think the guy who hasn't seen a single genuine photo of you would really like to be with YOU, and not the model he's seen?
I never imitate anyone and I can't imagine acting like my partner's mother (being over protective, checking up on him etc.) – after all, I want to be his partner, not a mother!
Yet, I still can't find my soul mate and I know that some men are afraid of me. What's wrong with a smart, confident woman who knows what she wants?
